This is for all you gaming widows out there. Here are a few steps that may just help you get closer to your gamer, and maybe even avoid some unnecessary arguments.
Step 1: When he puts on his headset, don’t bother talking to him unless it’s to let him know the place is on fire. Or a trip to the ER is required.
Step 2: While he’s on teamspeak AKA he’s talking to other guys ignoring their significant others, don’t harp. Do you know how many stupid conversations he’s had to listen to while you were on the phone with your friends?
Step 3: You know how he’ll start talking about his latest game conquest, or some raid he has to do at 5pm, ect… and you just don’t have a clue what he’s talking about? Or you don’t care? Just pretend. Nod and smile. “That’s great honey, good luck!” Chances are you’ve talked his ear off about some bitch at work, or your shoes, or your hair. Did he care? Maybe not. Did he listen? I hope so. If he was wearing his headset, he probably didn’t even hear you.
Step 4: Have you ever found yourself trying to talk to him while he’s playing, and he just didn’t seem to be responsive? Or his response was aggressive or short and it made you want to slap him? How dare he be short with me? Chances are he was in the middle of a big fight he wasn’t quite sure he was going to win and you were breaking his concentration. If you want his attention, here are a couple of things to look at before talking to him: Are there a lot of dudes crowded around something that looks evil? Don’t talk to him yet. Are there lots and lots of colors and lights floating around? Don’t talk to him. Is he typing a lot and clicking the mouse rather aggressively? Don’t talk to him yet. Is his little dude just running aimlessly through the woods, and there’s nothing else around? You’re good. Is his dude pounding on something, maybe a rock or a tree? And there’s nothing else around? You’re good. Is there a lot of little boxes with pictures of meat and bottles and it says “inventory” at the top of the big square? You’re good. Unless he’s clicking like a crazy person, then that means he’s trying to equip something really fast to try and kill the big thing that’s about to kill him. In that case, wait a minute or two. He’ll probably die, and then you have a couple of seconds before he resurrects.